How much do you tell your family and friends about what you do? Do you try to keep things separate? Perhaps you don’t want to worry them or share disturbing information?

There’s no right or wrong here. How much you share is about personal choice and the different relationships we have. However, what is important, is that you stay connected to your family and friends, because these relationships are at the heart of what keeps you well. If you've had a difficult day/shift/callout, try to find a way to let them know. You don't need to share the details, but let them support you, because they will almost certainly be able to tell that something is wrong.

It’s not unusual for people to be in relationships with others who work or volunteer in trauma-facing roles (e.g. prison or military), or for generations of family members to work for the same organisation. While this can bring benefits of understanding each other's roles, it may bring challenges too, like the practicalities of juggling shifts with caring responsibilities, worrying about burdening them, or feeling you have to live up to expectations.

Whatever your relationship situation, we know that your role can have an impact on your personal and social network. That’s why we’ve created some resources for your family, friends and other supporters.